People who suffer real tragedy and trauma typically recover more quickly than they expect to and often return to their original level of happiness ... the good news—we are a hardy species, even though we don't know this about ourselves. The bad news is that the good things that happen to us don't feel as good or last as long as we think they will. So all that wonderful stuff we're aiming for—winning the lottery, getting promoted, whatever we think will change our lives—probably won't do it after all. We're resilient in both directions. We rebound from distress but we also rebound from joy.This probably explains why I was relaxed and happy on Monday morning, but today feel like smashing a brick through a plate glass window.
"And by the way, everything in life is writable about if you have the outgoing guts to do it, and the imagination to improvise. The worst enemy to creativity is self-doubt." – Sylvia Plath
2.06.2008
at a market outside chichen ixta
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